Monday, 13 February 2017

Teach good manners to your children:

1. When entering the house greet your children with salams and kisses. This should help develop their sense of love and mercy.
2. Be good to your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak ill of other drivers when on the road. Your children listen, absorb and emulate.
3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiting your parents take your children with you. The more they see you take care of your parents the more they will learn to take care of you.
4. When driving them say to school, don't always play albums or cds (even if my cds!). Rather, tell them the stories yourself. This will have a greater impact - trust me!
5. Read to them a short hadith a day – it doesn't take much time, but very impactful in creating strong bonds and wonderful memories.
6. Comb your hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable cloths even if sitting at home and not going out for the day. They need to learn that being clean and tidy has nothing to do with going out!
7. Try not to blame or comment on every word or action they say or do. Learn to overlook and let go sometimes. This certainly builds their self-confidence.
8. Ask your children's permission before entering their rooms. Don't just knock and enter, but then wait for a verbal permission. They will learn to do the same when wanting to enter your room.
9. Apologize to your children if you made a mistake. Apologizing teaches them to be humble and polite.
10. Don't be sarcastic or make fun of their views or feelings, even if you "didn't mean it" and was "only joking". It really hurts.
11. Show respect to your children's privacy. Its important for their sense of value and self-esteem.
12. Don't expect that they will listen or understand the first time. Don't take it personally. Muhammad ‏ﷺ never did. But be patient and consistent.

Duas for Jannah:

Jannat maangne ki dua:
"Allahumma inni asalukal jannah"

Dozakh se bachne ki duaa:
"Allahumma ajirni minannar"

Things to know:

The Holy Prophet ﷺ Said:    

1) Four things that make your body sick: 
a) Excessive talking 
b) Excessive sleeping
c) Excessive eating and
d) Excessive meeting other people
 
2) Four things that destroy the body: 
a) Worrying
b) Sorrow (Sadness/Grief)
c) Hunger
d) Sleeping late in the night
 
3) Four things that take away the nur & happiness from your face: 
a) Lying
b) Being disrespectful / impudent (insisting on something wrong knowingly)
c) Arguing without adequate knowledge & Information.
d) Excessive immorality (doing something wrong without fear).
 
4) Four things that increase the noor of face & its happiness: 
a) Piety
b) Loyalty
c) Generosity (being kind)
d) To be helpful to others without he/she asking for that.
 
5) Four things that stop the Rizq (Sustenance) : 
a) Sleeping in the morning (from Fajr to sunrise) b) Not Performing Namaz or Ir-regular in Prayers
c) Laziness / Idleness
d) Treachery / Dishonesty
 
6) Four things that bring / increase the Rizq: 
a) Staying up in the night for prayers.
b) Excessive Repentance
c) Regular Charity
d) Zikr (Remembrance of Allah / God).
 
The Holy Prophet ﷺ Also said to communicate to others even if it's just one Verse (Ayaah) & this one verse will stand on the Day of Judgment for intercession 

The Holy Prophet ﷺ said, Stop doing everything during the Azaan, even reading the Quran, the person who talks  during the Azaan will not be able to say the Kalima E Shahada on his/her death bed....
  
Allahumma- inni- ala- Zikr-ika -wa Shuk-rika wa husni-Ibaadatik  
A very powerful Dua'a has been sent to you. Imagine if 1000 people read it just because of you.

Our Holy Prophet ﷺ has said..

- Black Seed is the cure to every illness
- Vinegar; if present in any household, that house will never become poor
- Olive is a cure to 76 illnesses
- Zam Zam is also the cure   illness
- Every pomegranate seed has a drop of water from Jannat (SubhanAllah)
- A house which has dates (Khajoor) will never remain hungry.

Jannat:

*Jannat* is made with
 
1. Bricks of Gold and Silver.
2. Its cement is of perfumed Musk.
3. Its chips are pearls and Yaqoot.  
4. Its sand is Zafraan.

*Eight Grades of Jannah*

1.   Jannatul Maawa
2.   Darul Maqaam
3.   Darul Salaam
4.   Darul Khuld
5.   Jannat-ul-Adan
6.   Jannat-ul-Naeem
7.   Jannat-ul-Kasif
8.   Jannat-ul-Firdous

*Food of Jannah*

They will eat foods and fruits continuously up to 40 years.
Every bowl will have a new taste.
They will take eructation which will digest the food and there will be perfumed sweating for the digestion of water.
There will be no urine and stool.

*Place Name*

There will be gardens in Jannah.
Every garden will have the length of about 100 year's journey.
The shadow of these gardens will be very dense.
Their plants will be free of thorns.
The size of their leaves will be equal to ears of elephants.
Their fruits will be hanging in rows.

Jannatul Mava is in the lowest,
Jannat-ul-Adan is the middle &
Jannat-ul- Firdous is on the highest.

Those who love each other for the sake of Allah will get a pillar of Yaqoot,
On which there will be seventy thousand (70,000) rooms.
These will shine for the residents of Jannah as the sun shines for the residents of Duniya.

*Rooms of Jannah*

There will be rooms in Jannah in such a way that every room will have seventy thousand (70,000) dinning sheets.
On every dinning sheet 70,000 types of foods will be served.
For their service 80,000 young boys will be moving around looking like beautiful scattered pearls.

One bunch of dates will be equal to the length of 12 arms.
The size of a date will be equal to the big pitcher.
These will be whiter than milk, sweeter than honey and softer than butter and free
Of seeds.
The stem of these plants will be made up of gold and silver.
There will also be gardens of grapes. The bunches of grapes will be very big.
The size of a single grape will be equal to a big pitcher.

Someone asked, ya Rasulullah (Sallalahu alaihi wasallam): 
will it be sufficient for me and my family. It was answered, it will be sufficient for you and your whole tribe.

*The Dresses of Jannah*

The dress of Jannah will be very beautiful.
One will wear 70 dresses at a time.
These will be very fine, delicate, weightless, having different colors.
These dresses will be so fine that the body even the heart will be visible.
And the waves of love in the hearts will also be visible.
These dresses will never become old, never be dirty and will never tear.

There will be four canals in every Jannah.
 
1  Water
2.   Milk
3.   Honey
4.   Sharabun Tahoora.

There will also be three fountains in  Jannah:

1.   Kafoor
2.   Zanjabeel
3.   Tasneem

*Qualities of People of Jannah*

In Jannah, height of every Mo 'min, will be equal to the height of

Hazrat Adam (Alaihissalaam) 60 arms (90 feet).
Beauty will be like that of Hazrat Yousuf (Alaihissalaam)
Age of youth will be like that of Hazrat Esa (Alaihissalaam) 30-33 years).
Sweetness of voice will be like that of Hazrat Dawud (Alaihissalaam).
Tolerance will be like that of Hazrat Yaqoob (Alaihissalaam)
Patience will be like that of Hazrat Ayyub (Alaihissalaam.)
Habits will be like that of Sayyaduna Muhammad (Sallalahu alaihi wasallam)

*NOTE:*
 
If a person makes Du'a for Jannah three times,
Jannah requests Allah that O, Allah; make his entry into Jannah.
And if a person makes Du'a for safety from Jahannum three times,
The Jahannnum requests Allah that, O, Allah; save him from Jahannum.
 
Please pass on and may Allah grant the entire Ummah of Nabi sallalahu alayhi wasallam Jannat ul Firdous Ameen!
 
Every good act is charity

JAZAK ALLAHU KHAIR-
May Allah Forgive our sins...Ameen
Sending this as its important for all of us to know.

Salat Al-janaaza ( Burial prayers)​:

1- ​After the First Takbeer​: Recite Surat Al-Fatiha.

*1. Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem*
*2. Alhamdu lillaahi Rabbil 'aalameen*
*3. Ar-Rahmaanir-Raheem*
*4. Maaliki Yawmid-Deen*
*5. Iyyaaka na'budu wa lyyaaka nasta'een*
*6. Ihdinas-Siraatal-Mustaqeem*
*7. Siraatal-lazeena an'amta 'alaihim ghayril- maghdoobi 'alaihim wa lad-daaalleen*

2- ​ *After the Second Takbeer:* Salat Al-Ibrahimiyya to the end, not Salat Fatih pls

*​Allaahumma salli 'alaa Muhammadin wa 'alaa 'aali Muhammadin, kamaa sallayta 'alaa 'Ibraaheema wa 'alaa 'aali 'Ibraaheema, 'innaka Hameedun Majeed. Allaahumma baarik 'alaa Muhammadin wa 'alaa 'aali Muhammadin, kamaa baarakta 'alaa 'Ibraaheema wa 'alaa 'aali 'Ibraaheema, 'innaka Hameedun Majeed​.*

3- ​ *After the Third Takbeer:* Pray for the dead but according how its narrated from our Prophet (S.A.W). One of them is:

*​Allaahum-maghfir lihayyinaa, wa mayyitinaa, wa shaahidinaa, wa ghaa'ibinaa, wa sagheerinaa wa kabeerinaa, wa thakarinaa wa 'unthaanaa. Allaahumma man 'ahyaytahu minnaa fa'ahyihi 'alal-'Islaami, wa man tawaffaytahu minnaa fatawaffahu 'alal-'eemaani, Allaahumma laa tahrimnaa 'ajrahu wa laa tudhillanaa ba'dahu​.*

*O Allaah* forgive our living and our dead, those who are with us and those who are absent, our young and our old, our menfolk and our womenfolk. *O Allaah*, whomever you give life from among us give him life in Islam, and whomever you take way from us take him away in Faith. *O Allaah*, do not forbid us their reward and do not send us astray after them.

4- *Then lastly after the Fourth Takbeer​:* And you should pray for all Muslims.

5- And lastly end the prayer with one Salaam to the right  *(Just once)*.

_​Please share if you think its right for the benefit of others_​.

*May Allah S.W forgive us our sins.*

Ameeeeen.